Hello, I’m Gloomy Orange.
I often have a lot of feelings I want to share, but I’m scared that if I speak up, I won’t be understood — or worse, that I’ll make things awkward.
Sometimes, I keep everything inside, thinking:
“There’s no point saying it…”
“Will people think I’m too sensitive if I say this?”
But deep down, I really want to learn — how to express my sense of being wronged, instead of silently getting hurt.
🍊 1. I can start by admitting: “I feel really uncomfortable.”
Most of the time, I hide my feelings behind a forced smile.
But now, I want to try saying:
“I’m actually a bit upset.”
“When you said that just now, I felt a bit wronged.”
✅ Focus on how I feel, not just the facts.
Because what truly needs understanding… is my emotion.
🍊 2. I can express myself with “feeling + reason”
Instead of just saying: “I’m sad.”
I can add another layer:
“I felt overlooked, because I tried really hard to participate — but it seemed like no one noticed.”
✅ This shows I’m not overreacting — there’s a reason behind how I feel.
🍊 3. When words are too hard, I can try small ways to let others know
If it’s too hard to speak up at first, I can:
- Pass a small note: “I have something I want to share today, but I’m a bit nervous… would you listen?”
- Send a message: “I’ve been feeling a bit off — can I talk to someone about it?”
- Draw a picture to show my emotions