If I were Gloomy Orange🍊🐷…

Hello, I’m Gloomy Orange.

I might not always smile when I talk to you.

Sometimes, my voice is soft, and I avoid eye contact —

not because I don’t want to talk,

but because…

I’m afraid that if I speak, you won’t understand — and that’ll hurt even more.

🍊 1. I hope you don’t just hear my words — but also feel what’s behind them

Sometimes I talk about tiny things, like:

“I said something today, and they kind of ignored me…”

You might think: “Huh? That’s such a small thing to care about.”

But for me, being ignored or misunderstood makes me feel unimportant.

✅ If you could say:

“Sounds like that really hurt… do you want to tell me more?”

I’d slowly feel safe enough to share what I really want to say.

🍊 2. When I seem withdrawn, please don’t push me to talk

If I go quiet or shrink back,

please don’t pressure me with: “Just say it! Come on, tell me!”

Instead, you could gently say:

“It’s okay if you don’t feel like talking — I’m here.

When you’re ready, I’ll be ready too.”

✅ With no pressure, I’ll slowly feel brave enough to open up.

🍊 3. When I finally share my hurt, don’t jump straight to “cheering me up”

I know you want to comfort me. But if I say:

“I feel so wronged…”

Please don’t reply with: “Forget it — just be happy!”

Instead, try saying:

“Hearing that makes my heart ache a bit too — that must feel awful.”

✅ When my feelings are validated, I find my own strength to heal.

🍊 4. Sometimes, all I need is someone quietly by my side

You don’t have to fix everything.

Just sit beside me.

Give me a look of care, a gentle pat on the shoulder,

or walk with me in silence for a while —

and I’ll feel that,

even when I’m not strong today, I’m not alone.

🍊 Gloomy Orange Quotes

“I’m not trying to be a burden — I just want someone to understand that I’m not weak, I’m just deeply affected because I care.”

“When you don’t rush to fix me but walk with me through the emotions, I feel truly cherished.”

“When I speak, I’m not asking you to fix everything — I just want someone to quietly, sincerely listen.”

I’m Gloomy Orange.

I might be a little slow to warm up, a bit sensitive, a bit afraid of being misunderstood.

But if you’re willing to give me a warm space,

you’ll see — I can become truly brave, because someone is walking with me. 🍊🐷💛