Hello~ I'm Anxioli Garlic.
I worry a lot—about saying the wrong thing, about not expressing myself clearly.
Sometimes you say something, and I’ll replay it in my head over and over, afraid I responded wrongly.
But the truth is, I really do want to talk to you.
It’s just that… I’m a bit slow to speak. I think through things deeply. I want to make sure what I say doesn’t cause problems.
So, I’m learning—
How can I speak with honesty and peace of mind, without feeling anxious every time?
🧄 1. Please give me just a little more time to gather my thoughts
Sometimes, when you ask a question, I might not respond right away.
It’s not because I don’t want to talk—
It’s because my brain is still rehearsing: “Which version is safest to say?”
✅ You can say:
"Take your time—I want to hear your thoughts."
"No rush—think it through first if you need to."
✅ When you let me take it slow, I feel safer to open up.
🧄 2. Use a gentle tone, not fast-paced questioning
If your tone feels rushed or urgent, I get even more nervous about saying the wrong thing.
But if you slow down, I feel calmer.
✅ Try opening with:
"I just want to know what you think—there’s no right or wrong answer."
"Share a bit more—I’d love to understand where you're coming from."
🧄 3. Give me a little confirmation—show me you’re really listening
When I finally speak, I can’t help but watch your reactions.
If your eyebrows furrow, I’ll immediately think I’ve said something wrong. 😓
✅ So you could say:
"You explained that really clearly—I get it."
"That was really well said—I appreciate how sincere you’re being."
✅ Even small responses mean a lot to me.
🧄 4. If I fumble, gently help me clarify
Please don’t correct or reject me right away.
Instead, try saying:
"Are you saying [this/that]? I just want to make sure I understand you right."
"I think I get what you mean—feel free to add on."
✅ If you’re helping, not judging, I can relax more.
🧄 5. Remember: I may look timid, but it’s because I care deeply
All my nervousness and caution come from caring—
Caring about how you see me, and how strong our connection is.
I don’t want to hurt you, say the wrong thing, or break trust.
✅ If you can see my intentions beneath my hesitations,
I’ll feel much more willing to open my heart.
🤍 Anxioli Garlic Quotes:
"I speak slowly because I want to speak precisely."
"I may look anxious, but it’s because I care how you hear me."
"Please give me a moment—I’ll find the words that carry my heart."
I'm Anxioli Garlic.
I’m doing my best to speak my truth.
I just hope you’ll listen with patience, and hear my quiet but sincere voice. 🧄🤍