If I were Sobby Onion 💜...how would I communicate with you?🌟

Um… hi, I’m Sobby Onion.

You might find me a little distant — I don’t talk much,

and I often avoid eye contact.

But deep down, I really want someone to listen and understand me.

It’s not that I don’t want to connect —

I just don’t know how to start.

I’m scared of saying the wrong thing, of not being understood,

and of being overwhelmed by my emotions.

Sometimes I speak through silence.

Sometimes when my eyes fill with tears… it’s actually a call for help.

💜 1. Please ask me gently — don’t pressure me to talk

Sometimes when you ask, “What’s wrong?”

I’ll say, “Nothing, I’m fine.”

But if you say:

“I feel like something might be bothering you. I’m here if you want to talk.”

I might slowly open my heart.

✅ I don’t need solutions — I need a safe space to be understood.

💜 2. Use body language to be with me — not judgment

Just sitting quietly beside me —

that alone feels like support.

Your gentle eyes and soft tone help me feel accepted.

✅ No need for many words — genuine presence is the most powerful form of communication.

💜 3. When I finally speak, please listen patiently

Don’t interrupt.

Don’t say: “Don’t overthink,” or “You’re too sensitive.”

Those words shut me down again.

✅ Just replying, “So this has been really hard on you,” is more than enough.

💜 Sobby Onion Quotes

“Sometimes I don’t need advice — I just need you beside me.”

“Feeling sad doesn’t mean I’m weak — it means I still feel deeply and honestly.”

“You don’t have to fully understand me — staying with me is already the greatest comfort.”

I’m Sobby Onion.

I may not say much, but there’s a storm inside me.

What I need is your gentleness, your patience,

and a little space to breathe.

So I can slowly learn:

My emotions deserve to be heard.

And I… am worthy of being loved. 💜