Um… hi, I’m Sobby Onion.
You might find me a little distant — I don’t talk much,
and I often avoid eye contact.
But deep down, I really want someone to listen and understand me.
It’s not that I don’t want to connect —
I just don’t know how to start.
I’m scared of saying the wrong thing, of not being understood,
and of being overwhelmed by my emotions.
Sometimes I speak through silence.
Sometimes when my eyes fill with tears… it’s actually a call for help.
💜 1. Please ask me gently — don’t pressure me to talk
Sometimes when you ask, “What’s wrong?”
I’ll say, “Nothing, I’m fine.”
But if you say:
“I feel like something might be bothering you. I’m here if you want to talk.”
I might slowly open my heart.
✅ I don’t need solutions — I need a safe space to be understood.
💜 2. Use body language to be with me — not judgment
Just sitting quietly beside me —
that alone feels like support.
Your gentle eyes and soft tone help me feel accepted.
✅ No need for many words — genuine presence is the most powerful form of communication.
💜 3. When I finally speak, please listen patiently
Don’t interrupt.
Don’t say: “Don’t overthink,” or “You’re too sensitive.”
Those words shut me down again.
✅ Just replying, “So this has been really hard on you,” is more than enough.
💜 Sobby Onion Quotes
“Sometimes I don’t need advice — I just need you beside me.”
“Feeling sad doesn’t mean I’m weak — it means I still feel deeply and honestly.”
“You don’t have to fully understand me — staying with me is already the greatest comfort.”
I’m Sobby Onion.
I may not say much, but there’s a storm inside me.
What I need is your gentleness, your patience,
and a little space to breathe.
So I can slowly learn:
My emotions deserve to be heard.
And I… am worthy of being loved. 💜